Just one more...

I know I just posted "Beatrice, Month Eight" - but my good friend Amy Robb just posted a photo on her blog too cute to pass up. This is Beatrice with her friend Miller while Amy and Evan were very kindly babysitting for us the other night.

Beatrice, Month Eight

The eighth month was a big one. Beatrice is now standing up (with the aid of a piece of furniture). She stood up for the first time at Summer St. Pierre's house and has been perfecting her stance since - though since Beatrice can't walk yet, she will instead stand still for five or ten minutes while looking around with a "what next?" look on her face.

Beatrice has been spending a lot of her time lately with Summer and Summer's adorable almost-two-year-old Jack - they've been entertaining Beatrice twice a week while I work on writing. And Jack adores Beatrice - he calls her "my baby" and runs to bring her her favorite toys when she comes over. Beatrice loves Jack, too, and she doesn't mind being occasionally bowled over by his affections - in fact, the other day she managed to catch him off balance and knock him over. She always leaves Summer's house in a great mood (even if she often has too much fun to nap while she's there).

Beatrice is also perfecting her sitting, including sitting in the bath - and especially her crawling. She is crawling basically every moment she's awake. Unfortunately, she refuses to stop moving for anything, including nursing and diaper changes -even at night, she crawls back and forth in her crib until finally exhaustion takes her.

This month we started B on more finger foods, including Cheerios, cereal puffs, crackers, and yogurt drops, as well as non-traditional finger foods like cottage cheese and egg yolks. Egg yolks make more mess than you can ever imagine. Still - nothing occupies a baby like finger food. Mina and I enjoyed a leisurely brunch with all three babies recently while Beatrice was perfectly engrossed in eating five Saltine crackers in slow succession.

Beatrice encounters a cracker for the first time.

Beatrice and cottage cheese.

This month B also discovered a newfound love of swings. As you can see, she's perfectly fearless (though I'm not - I made Dev stop pushing her so high, I was sure she was going to fall out).

And now that she's older, she's beginning to appreciate things like the Zimmer Children's Museum, where she explored the water table and the "toddler bounce room," or the Cabrillo Aquarium where she sat in a fish tube.

Fish tube.

Beatrice plays with the water table.

Beatrice poses with some kosher play food at the Zimmer Museum.

Find more month eight photos on Flickr or Facebook.

Congratulations Stephanie and Paul!

Last Saturday Stephanie and Paul got married in one of the loveliest weddings I've been to - every element was totally personal and unique. Sadly I didn't have my camera but you can catch a few pictures on Summer's blog - with many more to follow.

Beatrice, Month Seven

Beatrice's seventh month saw her still working on most of the same things she started last month, including crawling and sitting up. She spent most of the month in a great mood, however (barring episodes of teething), full of laughter and excitement. She is very sociable, loves parties and crowds, and gladly welcomes the attention of strangers.

Here she is crawling to get Dev's Leatherman:

She's taken to letting out a loud roar of enthusiasm or victory - she does this constantly, all day long, whether bathing, feeding the dogs Cheerios, or greeting a new friend.

She has now sampled a wide variety of foods, vegetables, fruits, grains, and meats, and loves them all - some of her favorites include yogurt, puffed cereals, beef, peas, and all fruits.

Every month she gets more and more interested in her toys, which is so gratifying since I bought them for her long before she was able to appreciate them (and in some cases, long before she was born). One of her favorites is the Swedish barnyard play set.

She also adores the Rody that Patricia, Lucas's mother, gave her.

This month Beatrice met James's sister Katy.

Beatrice loves playing very rough (or as rough as we'll allow) - she likes nothing more than to be knocked over by the dogs, to tumble upside down, fall over, get back up, be grabbed and tickled, or pushed very fast in the stroller. Here she is roughhousing with Shack:

She loves music and toys that make noise, including her xylophone and her giraffe shaker (both Christmas gifts from Mina).

She also loves books and listening to stories - Travis gave us several new favorites this year for Christmas, including stories about Babar, Eloise, and Madeline.

Beatrice is very independent and insists on doing everything herself, which is charming but also messy and time-consuming. She won't eat anymore unless you let her try to hold the spoon and feed herself, and she also wants to turn the pages of books on her own.

She is learning lots of skills out of order, the harder thing before the easier thing, so she can crawl and use a spoon quite well, but she can't properly sit or use a cup at all. It's pretty clear she has her own agenda.

By far what I'm proudest about, though, is that Beatrice is so brave. She is truly fearless. On New Year's day at the Waddingtons' annual party, we showed her a wooden mango. When you turn the mango upside down, a realistic-looking cobra pops out. You might have expected Beatrice to cry or at least recoil when the snake popped up in her face - instead she let out a roar, lunged for it with both hands, and tried to throttle it. That's totally Beatrice.

We didn't take that many photos this month other than Christmas ones, but you can catch a few on Facebook or Flickr.

Stephanie's bridal shower

On Wednesday night, Summer St. Pierre, Amy Robb, Amy Turner, and I hosted a bridal shower for Stephanie before her wedding this Saturday. We looked at photos of Stephanie from infancy until the present day, learned a little about her fiance Paul in a trivia game, and had a wonderful time celebrating Stephanie's amazing, adventurous pre-married life and looking forward to all the exciting times ahead for them both. I can't believe I've known Stephanie now for more than twenty years, ever since I spied her playing wagon train on the monkey bars in fifth grade.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Beatrice with her cousins Louis and Rosemary in Griffith Park

This year's Christmas card photo

Merry (belated) Christmas! and a Happy New Year!

Early in December I took Beatrice to see (a wonderfully authentic-looking) Santa at the Americana shopping mall in Glendale. We waited in line for 45 minutes surrounded by loud music, blinking lights, and shrieking children but Beatrice had a great time throughout, she was smiling the entire time, even when I made her sit alone on the lap of an outlandishly costumed stranger.

Christmas attire in Southern California

Then we drove to Dallas with the dogs, stopping on the way to visit Michael, Laura, and Boston in Santa Fe.

We spent the holidays with Dev's whole family: Mamo, Naresh, Suzan, Mina, James, Julie, Maureen, Rosemary, and Louis, along with me, Dev, and Beatrice, plus the two dogs and Maureen's rabbit Fifi.

And we even got snow for Christmas!

Louis had his Christmas balloon tied to his wrappings

Beatrice plays with her drum and xylophone from Aunt Mina

Beatrice opens her first Christmas gift from her mom and dad, the "bob and wobble lion"

The lion is a hit.

Playing the worst board game of all time.

Beatrice with her Christmas balloon.

James makes an excellent pie.

See the rest of our Christmas photos on Flickr and Facebook.

Beatrice, Month Six

Today Beatrice is half a year old! This month she has hit a few developmental milestones here and there but the real change is just in her constantly evolving personhood. Compared to six months ago (or even one month ago) she is just so much more of an individual now, with the rudiments of a distinct personality. Whereas once her face mostly registered only happy/neutral or unhappy/crying, she now has a range of real, recognizable emotions, including boredom, amusement, frustration, delight, curiousity, and suspicion.

The highlight of the month was the baby's first Thanksgiving and her chance to finally meet her uncles Travis and Aubrey and many other friends. Beatrice and I also took a week-long vacation to the Bay Area to visit the Blocks while Dev was out of town on a business trip.




This month we also ventured out to a baby sensory learning group (don't ask) but Beatrice adored all the chaotic, noisy activity. At one point Beatrice was simultaneously bombarded with recorded music, live drumming, hand-held percussion instruments, and ribbon dancing, and she seemed to enjoy it all. The class leader declared she had never met a baby who was so hard to unnerve. That will come in handy.

Beatrice continues to add new foods every week - fruits, vegetables, and meats - and so far she loves them all uniformly. In fact, dinner time is now the highlight of her day.

Beatrice continues to try out new vocalizations - most of them sound like the typical consonant-vowel pairings of baby babble, but her neatest trick is the bird-like trilling she has taken to making.

She also loves petting (ie., grabbing) Shackelton, Cromwell, and Odin.

She is also working on crawling - she can scoot efficiently across the entire length of a room. But only backwards. If you place a desired toy in front of her, she will work with all her might to reach it while slowly receding from it. Like so many things involving babies, it's both sad and incredibly funny. (Video coming soon!)

Find more Beatrice month six photos on Flickr and Facebook.

Happy Thanksgiving!

We spent this year at Sam and Lilli's house celebrating our ninth annual Thanksgiving party, which this year featured the triumphant return of Adult Fry and the unholy creation of a chidurkey (an inverted turducken). It also featured MSG waffles, which might just be the worst thing I've ever eaten. Twice.

This year was particularly exciting, though, because it was Baby's First Thanksgiving. For years to come, she'll think Thanksgiving is like this for everyone. I can't wait until her kindergarten teacher asks the class to draw a picture of what their family does to celebrate Thanksgiving and Beatrice draws a picture of a bearded lunatic deep-frying a road sign.

That's the best thing about babies: they have no context.

1500 servings of MSG.

A meeting is called.

This should never happen.

This man is NSF certified.

It's not important what this is.

Happy Halloween!

We've had a busy month of Halloween-related activities, starting with our annual Block family trip to the apple farms near Placerville in northern California.


We also went to a pumpkin festival in Pasadena with Mina, James, and Rosemary,


and to see the fall foliage at Descanso gardens.

Then Dev and I helped out with the Mom's Club children's Halloween party on October 24.

The following day we had some friends and family over to have an all-pumpkin dinner and carve jack o' lanterns.

Then at last it was Halloween itself - we had a big open house with friends from all over the city while also handing out candy to the many trick or treaters in our neighborhood. More than thirty people dropped by plus a total of seven babies.

Rosemary in costume as an Indian princess,

and I made Louis an ultrasound costume.

And of course, I also made Beatrice's costume, a stack of pancakes.

Shackleton was a middle manager.

Cromwell was an old-timey motorist.

Dev was a ghost (again).

And I was Medusa.
See more of our fall and Halloween photos on Flickr and Facebook, including some great photos of our party guests and their costumes.

Beatrice, Month Five

The big news this month (besides Halloween) is SOLID FOOD. That's right, we're into the big time with rice cereal and even the occasional dabble into oatmeal. Beatrice is surprisingly enthusiastic about what is, in essence, a flavorless gruel - she even insists on holding the spoon and trying to feed herself. A mess ensues.

Also - she's sitting! Sort of. She can sit on her own for a limited time when placed in that position, but her big break came the other day when for the first time she lifted herself from a reclining position to a sitting one on her own, held herself steady for about 20 seconds, and then tipped slowly forward until she wound up on her stomach.

She's also been enjoying some forays into object permanence - she likes to sit in her highchair and throw her plastic cups over the side, then peer after them and try to find where they've landed.

Beatrice is engaging more with the dogs this month, reaching out to pet them and following them with her eyes as they lope around the house causing trouble. The other day she was crying pretty hard until Shack came up and licked her face - she stopped crying in an instant. Good dog.

Most of her time, though, is spent grabbing her feet and stuffing them into her mouth. Accomplishments abound!

Beatrice with her cousins Rosemary and Louis:

And last but not least, Beatrice celebrating with Lucas and Veronika at a Russian Orthodox church festival featuring our favorite Russian folk band Limpopo:

(Beatrice is wearing a pumpkin hat from a previous engagement.)

As always, you can find many more photos on Flickr and Facebook.